Have you come to dread family mealtimes? Are you fed-up making “special” recipes for the fussy eater in your family? Worried that your child is not eating enough to develop?
Don´t despair! You are not alone. Despite parental concerns that fussy eaters will not get their proper nutritional intake, most kids still thrive and grow. Even with a limited repertoire of meals, there are several steps that parents can take to encourage a wider range of foods and healthier eating. Implement these tips one at a time, allowing time for your child to adapt. With a relaxed environment, patience and regular repetition, most children will eventually respond!
Here are our top 10 “tried and tested” tips for handling fussy eaters:
1) Don´t be disheartened if your child rejects a new food the first time he sees it. Most kids need to see and taste foods several times before they will accept them. Keep offering new foods until they become familiar. If your child still refuses, leave a decent time interval before re-introducing again.
2) Resist the temptation to offer your child bribes, particularly of the “sweet ” variety. Although that bribe to “eat your peas and you can have chocolate” might work today, in the long term, it only causes more problems by reinforcing the difference between “nice foods” and “yukky foods”. Your child may readily comply with a bribe to get a reward, but will still not like certain foods.
3) If your child refuses an item of food, get creative! Offer an alternative choice, and try not to get drawn into a battle of wills. The ideal solution is to find an alternative that is acceptable.
4) Try involving your child in the food preparation. Most kids will enjoy cooking, and the chances of them eating the end result are improved greatly! Prepare simple meals, such as pasta and rice dishes and allow them to select their favourite ingredients. A simple way to get children involved in the kitchen is by using a crock pot. Start with a simple crock pot recipe, like this crock pot meatball recipe and then progress to something more difficult.
5) If your child prefers “junk” food, try and develop your own healthy substitute. I make chicken dippers for my kids with chicken breast cut into strips, dipped in egg and rolled in crushed cornflakes. Quick, simple and so much healthier than the processed version.
6) If your child suddenly starts refusing food, check that there is not an underlying medical reason. Sore throats, colds, teething problems… these can all have an impact on a child´s appetite.
7) Children like routine, so stick to fairly fixed meal times. Offer meals that you know your child will eat in regular rotation. There is nothing wrong with serving the same main course more than once a week, and you can vary the side dishes.
Involve your kids in “menu planning” for the week ahead. Let everyone in the family choose their favourite meals. Whilst your child may not eat everything on offer, at least they can look forward to their favourite foods a couple of times a week!
9) Watch your child´s fluid intake around mealtimes, and don´t allow them to fill up with drinks just before a meal. Kids have small stomachs, and a large beaker of juice could kill their appetite completely.
10) If all else fails, try sneaking healthier items into the daily diet. Pureé fruit and serve as a sauce for ice cream. Add pureéd vegetables to pasta sauces. Mash some carrots into the potato. You´ll soon find your own way to make sure that a few extra items are included at mealtimes.
Above all, stay calm, and be patient. There are very few areas in a child´s life where they have complete control, and refusing food is generally the exception. Just look at the reaction it gets from Mom and Dad! Eating habits will improve as they get older, and more adventurous. Despite your worries, they will grow out of it. After all, think about it…how many adult fussy eaters do you know?
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